One Christmas Eve my husband and I invited our flannelled, bushy-bearded neighbor man to join us for our family’s traditional, holiday meal.

We’d known him for a few years. He used to come to his country property every weekend to camp out, but come one Sunday night, rather than leave for the city, he moved into his camp trailer. Permanent. I sometimes saw him at the outlet store where dented and outdated groceries were sold at discount prices, so I knew he had enough money for food. And gas.

He kept to himself and his fire pit, and sometimes we heard him rollicking with noisy, beer-chugging friends. He lived off our shared dirt road—amid the thick trees and heavy underbrush—until a wild, winter windstorm smashed a tree into the corner his place. Soon after, he moved his trailer to a clear-cut. He parked another camper beside it. One for cooking. One for sleeping.

When we heard the stomp-bang of boots on the front porch steps, my husband opened the door and motioned our guest inside. Inside of the doublewide trailer that formerly belonged to his parents. I’d not thought that sentimentality through.

“Oh, you replaced the carpet with laminate floors,” he said as he shrugged out of his wood smoky jacket and craned his neck for an obvious look into the next room. “And you covered the kitchen wallpaper with pine boards.” He chewed his lower lip and sucked air through his front teeth, nodding ever so slight.

Our home was clean, the food smelled great, and a fresh-cut tree blinked white lights in the living room. My husband, our 3-year-old son, my visiting mother-in-law, the neighbor man, and I bellied up to the table. Food items and mismatched place settings were its only décor. In addition to the lasagna, salad, mashed spuds, gravy from a packet, store-bought stuffing, and thick cranberry/apple sauce that had been simmering since dawn, I already had placed small plates of chocolate cream pie at each spot.

While eating we talked of the extraordinary lowland flooding—because whilst our mountainous elevation was high enough to have snow—the nearby freeway, towns, and neighborhoods seeped deep with water. His everyday speech was brazen and thick with cuss words, burning my son’s ears with alarming newness.

“Momma, whazzat mean?” my little feller asked over and over again as he pulled on my elbow.

“I’ll tell you about it later, honey,” I said as I gentle-squeezed his little hand.

“But momma, I don’t know what—“

I hushed his continued queries with extra chocolate pie. My mother-in-law paled and went slack-jaw a often. My husband cleared his throat time and again. And I bit my cheek and refilled coffee mugs.

After dinner we invited him to attend a candlelight service with us. And knowing that his rig wasn’t winter-worthy, we offered him a ride.

He nodded slow and looked low. “Churches aren’t for people like me.” Pointing from frazzled hair to booted feet, he said, “I don’t think they’d want all of this, inside of there.”

We gave protest, but to no avail.

Fast-forward another year and a couple evenings before Christmas… My little feller had tromped about as a shepherd in our church’s play, and at its finish, the pastor spoke to the congregation and guests. Then, in all of his 4-year-old impatient glory, my son clamored over my lap and darted up the aisle, shepherd clothes flapped and snapped against his cowboy boots as he ran. When the pastor bent low to assess the candlelit commotion, my youngin’ grabbed the microphone.

Spinning to face the packed pews, he said, “What he’s trying to say is this part’s over. Jesus is having a birthday party downstairs. And guess what? We brung the cake!”

He fled the sanctuary and I chased after my miniature cowboy shepherd. As I ran toward the stairwell, I recognized a man leaning against the back wall. Although flannelled to his utmost, his wild hair was combed smooth, and he’d trimmed his beard.

Once downstairs, my husband introduced our neighbor man around the room. Folks belted out Happy Birthday, and then we all ate cake.

Some days later as I drove homeward, the neighbor man stepped outta the woods and stopped me on the dirt road. “You know where you go to Sunday service? That place where I watched the Christmas play when your son stole the microphone?”

“Yes, sir?” I asked, leaning through the truck window.

“Those folks didn’t seem bothered by all of this,” he said as he pointed from beard to boots.

~

I reckon a flannelled, bushy-bearded man who lives in a camp trailer deserves to meet the Man who spent His first earthly night in a manger. And, he did.

Simply Darlene
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Darlene (aka Simply Darlene) leads a simple life as a wife, momma, homemaker, teacher, country girl, and a Type 1 Diabetic advocate. At www.SimplyDarlene.com she is a storyteller, photographer, poet, and wordsmith. You can also find her in these tangled interwebs on Twitter and Instagram under the handle SimplyDarWrites.
  • Patricia Hunter
    http://patriciawhunter.com

    Wonderful story, Miss Darlene. I can picture every single moment. xox

    December 9th, 2016 12:29
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    • SimplyDarlene
      SimplyDarlene
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      Thanks for reading and commenting, Miss Patricia. Even though these evenings each happened over ten years ago, I remember the details like yesterday. Such blessed moments.

      December 9th, 2016 20:16
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  • Sharon A Gibbs
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    Darlene,
    What a wonderful storyteller you are! Love you voice! Such a unique fingerprint you leave on your work.
    I wish I could sit down next to you by a campfire and hear your stories sometime.
    xoxo

    December 9th, 2016 20:12
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    • SimplyDarlene
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      I reckon the ordinary occurrences in all our lives are counted as extraordinary as seen through the eyes of our heavenly Father! And, I so appreciate your kind words, Sharon.

      Blessings.

      December 9th, 2016 23:11
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  • Wendy Kleker
    http://wendykleker.wordpress.com

    Love your story Darlene. It speaks to this country girl’s heart. I need the reminder that even those rough, reclusive fellers need a bit of love and a lot of Jesus! Thanks! Glad to see your post. Merry Christmas and many blessings!

    December 10th, 2016 10:33
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    • SimplyDarlene
      SimplyDarlene
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      Yes indeed, we all need a lot of Jesus!

      Thank you for reading and commenting.

      Blessings.

      December 13th, 2016 15:59
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  • Jody Collins
    Jody Collins
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    Darlene, it took me a week and a day to get to your post. So worth the wait. Tears in my eyes as we speak….well done.

    December 11th, 2016 17:26
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    • SimplyDarlene
      SimplyDarlene
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      Hey Jody – I’m thankful for you and your tender heart.

      Blessings.

      December 13th, 2016 16:00
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  • Natasha Metzler
    http://natashametzler.com

    We are in the process of bringing a neighbor man to our table. He carried a Bible home with him the last time. His interest in what made our family smile so much causing him to ask for one.

    I pray someday I will be able to write a story very similar to this one.

    December 12th, 2016 5:31
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    • SimplyDarlene
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      http://www.SimplyDarlene.com

      Natasha –

      It’s crazy how our demeanor and attitude reflect our God, isn’t it? Before I was a believer, and while I was a consultant at a health food store, there was a family that I just loved to pieces because of their kindness, patience, and compassion. As God would have it – they were the pastor’s family of the smallTown church where another friend took us one Easter.

      May God shine through you and yours to touch your neighbor’s heart.

      Blessings.

      December 13th, 2016 16:05
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  • michelle ortega
    http://imagesbymichelleortega.com

    Just beautiful, and in perfect timing! You brought us right along, bellied up to your table, too~my wildest dream! So glad this made it to the public. 🙂

    December 12th, 2016 15:36
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    • SimplyDarlene
      SimplyDarlene
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      Michelle – Belly up with me any day! But until then, I know you’ll gather round with others, doing the same sorta thing. And, thank you for your writerly encouragement.

      Blessings.

      December 13th, 2016 16:07
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  • Elizabeth Marshall
    http://www.elizabethwmarshall.com

    Darlene, this is a gift to me on a dreary Tuesday morning. Your telling of a powerful connection between souls is exquisite. I hung on every line. Your gift of tender storytelling always gives me pause. Such joy…this sitting around the table with you. Merry Christmas. And I’m wondering where your friend will be this Christmas.

    December 13th, 2016 9:55
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  • SimplyDarlene
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    Elizabeth – My friend of the woods is two states away after all of my family’s relocating for my husband’s work; but, I have it on good authority that he’s looked after by the remaining neighbors. Last year they told me that he occasionally asks them questions about the bible… So, hope is alive, just like God’s love!

    Blessings.

    December 13th, 2016 16:16
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